Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Update on Michael...Day 79....

New update information on Michael from his father-in-law (Jim Brown) Please continue to pray for him and his family.

Last Thursday they removed Michael's tracheotomy tube from his throat. Which was great news. He was able to speak a little better along with allowing him to finally try and take some clear liquids via mouth.

My wife and I took Wyatt to see his Daddy again. Wyatt is such a good little guy. He knew where we were going and was anxious to see his Daddy. He picked out a ghost type stuffed animal for his Daddy to take to him for the upcoming Halloween. As we walked down the hallway heading for Michael's room, Wyatt was all excited and kept saying as we passed the other patients rooms, "not my Daddy". Meaning that these were not Daddy's rooms. When we got to Michael's room Wyatt declared, "there's my Daddy" and Michael turned his head and waved and said hello to Wyatt. They both spent a good bit of time talking and generally having a good time.

Michael's lunch then arrived. It consisted of some chicken broth, iced tea, grape juice and a popsicle.
His Grandma told me to go ahead and feed him if I would like. I guess on Thursday when he had his first lunch without the tracheotomy tube, he was using a straw and took too much liquid at one time and it made its way into his lungs, being the hole from the tracheotomy tube isn't healed over yet. So, by Friday when we were there the nurses insisted that all liquids be given to him with a spoon.

Michael's hands continue to shake due to weakness so he has to be helped with the feedings.
I began to give him a couple spoonfuls of broth then some tea and he looked right at Grandma and said, "Nana feed me".
Well now, who am I to stand in the way...chuckles.
I guess I was doing something wrong. No big deal though on my part. I stepped to the side and let Grandma continue with his feeding.
The amazing thing about his lunch was after about 4 or 5 spoonfuls of broth, 3 or 4 spoons of tea and one piece of chopped up popsicle he was full.
Seems his stomach has shrunk down so much that a mouse size meal is all he can handle.

We were so very happy to see him be able to have some liquids by mouth though.
It was kind of funny in which he has stated the whole time he has been awake that he wanted a mountain dew. Well, Grandma got him one and gave him a spoonful of it and he didn't like it. I am not sure if it was the strong taste or if it was the carbonation, but boy he sure didn't want that after all. We all kind of chuckled at that one.

The skin graft that was done to one of his ankles has taken well.
He also has been having some physical therapy in his bed. They are working his arms and hands to help him gain strength along with trying to get him to bend his knees.
He is in great pain through out these sessions, but it will go a long way in helping him to gain some strength.

Yesterday we were told that his abdomen is leaking still and that they are going to stop the liquid diet that he was allowed since last Thursday.
This is fairly disappointing. We are not quite sure where the leaks are coming from but the assumption is that it is from the small intestine.
It is amazing how long it takes for wounds to the intestines to heal.
His large intestine remains outside his body in the colostomy bag.

Tomorrow they are going to skin graft part of the opening that remains in his belly. They feel they can close up half of the opening for now and allow that part to start healing.
During this surgery tomorrow they are most likely going to place a couple of drain tubes into the abdomen to allow the leaks to drain.
We are not yet sure when he will be allowed to have liquids again by mouth but we hold out hope that it won't be for too long.

All in all Michael seems to be in good spirits. He asked if he could have his X-box gaming system hooked up to the TV so that he can play some. I think in the long run it will be a good thing to have it for it will help him to use his hands and gain some strength.

We hope and pray this surgery tomorrow and subsequent looks into the abdomen will produce good results.

It seems even though 11 weeks have passed that there remains a long long road ahead.

We as a family continue to receive all kinds of prayers, support, well wishes and such kind generosity that it leaves us in tears sometimes. Folks we don't even know that have heard of the accident are coming forward with help.

You all are a great inspiration to us and we thank you; from the bottom of our hearts.

Jim and Becky Brown


Let me also put a request in for this family (Michael McDaniel) for anyone who may like to help financially. Here is a link to his church website http://www.rockc3.com so you can look there and get the address to the church or call them and get an address of where you could send your help. I'm sure after 79 days and who knows how many more this family could use whatever help you could offer.
Thanks for your prayers and what help you have already given.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Understanding Humility....

Humility is no hang dog approach to life.
Humility is simply seeing ourselves as we actually are, not higher or lower.
It means being gut-level honest about ourselves - being up front.
It means knowing who we are and owning that - and owning our emotions.
It means living without hypocrisy.

Christ was our perfect example of what being humble really means. While it is difficult we should make every effort to follow His example of humility.

Is is right or wrong to get a tattoo - Part III

Seems like I've sparked some fires - ruffled some feathers on this topic. Let me give you some personal feelings of my own.

OK I didn't say anywhere that getting a tattoo is a sin, so let me set that straight. It is a choice just like many other things that face us today (like love, living together, eating too much, having sex before marriage etc. etc.). We have choices placed in front of us everyday, some of those choices are given to us by God and some by Satan and we choose which things we will do or not do.

Nor am I saying that getting or having a tattoo will or will not keep someone from going to heaven or keep me from witnessing to someone that has tattoos. We all need Jesus and regardless of if you have a tattoo will not keep me from telling you about the Lord or asking you to work for Jesus yourself. I've known many a GREAT people who are currently serving the Lord that has lots of tattoos (but they did tell me they got them before they knew Christ as Savior) - just saying...

I do feel however that people should make their choice on their own in prayer to God as to if they should or should not get a tattoo, not be pressured or challenged into it.

I love all people whether they have a tattoo or not and I myself want to see all people come to know Jesus and be able to live with Him in Heaven, it doesn't matter to me if they have tattoos or not, I will try to reach ALL people no matter who they are, what they wear, where they come from and so on. Everyone deserves to know my Lord.

I have a great friend who got a tattoo before she came to know Jesus as her Savior and now that she knows the Lord she regrets getting it.

It is all about choices people, should I or shouldn't I, that is the question.
And the answer to that question should only be given to you by God - seek Him and find out if you should or should not do the something that you are wanting to do.


I'm not saying it is right or wrong, what I am saying is its a choice, your choice, (not someone's elses to make for you or dare/challenge you to do).

God (and only God) through His Word should give you the answer of what to do with your body, your life.


Monday, October 27, 2008

Is it right or wrong to get a tattoo PART II...

Ok here is my 2nd side of this issue...

In regards to the whole nature of this issue, we also cannot overlook what Ist Corinthians 6:19-20 states,

"Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; and you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body."

There are those that would attest that getting a tattoo on one's body is a "worldly act."
In 2 Corinthians 6:17, we are warned, "Therefore come out from them and be separate." We have also heard the phrase "in the world, but not of it" reiterated many times before. In this context, this could be taken by some as meaning that either
a) we are not to have anything with the world or
b) while we are living in this world, our lives are supposed to be radically different than those who don't know Christ around us.

As one pastor commented, "We are to be separate. We are to be different. We don't live according to the worlds' standards and cultures. As Christians, we are not to embrace the things that the world embraces (such as tattoos!). The message that we proclaim must not be compromised."

Leviticus 19:28. states, "Do not cut your bodies for the dead or put tattoo marks on yourselves. I am the Lord."

It's kind of difficult to argue with a Scripture like that when it states it in black and white terms like that.

However, I know that some of you are already arguing/disagreeing that because this Scripture is in the Old Testament, it would be considered "under the Law of the Old Covenant."

To anyone thinking of getting a tattoo, let me urge you to really pray and search your own heart before God. Most people always want to hear what God has for them and what God wants to speak to them, however, the moment that God says no to something they want or the moment God asks people to do something that would ruffle their feathers, many don't want to hear it. We all are all guilty of this.

"You need to ask God-'Is this really what you want me to do?' And, if you are in a struggle with your flesh wanting it, but the Spirit of God telling you no, can you stop yourself from going through with the act of disobedience to God?

"Don't ever get a tattoo because of peer pressure. Don't get a tattoo as a fake "tough-guy" front or mask either. Make sure, really seek God… a tattoo is with you forever."

Sunday, October 26, 2008

Judgement House Day 3

WOW, last night for this week.
51 Salvations tonite.......YAY LORD, thank you.

Is it right or wrong to get a tattoo?

OK here goes. My daughter and I were talking today about people having or getting tattoos.
My feeling/opinion is one thing and hers was another. We shared our thoughts and then I started thinking I need to do some more research and write about it for the people who also have wondered/questioned this topic.

Here are my findings:

Do the same principles apply to tattoos that are of a Christian nature, such as a cross, a Christian slogan, or even a Bible verse? Some Christians have found that having tattoos gives them more credibility, and thereby more possibilities of evangelism, with some groups of people. So what about Christian tattoos? Obviously, a tattoo of a cross is “better” than a tattoo of a flaming skull, naked woman, or demon.

Having a tattoo saying “Jesus saves” could indeed be a conversation starter with some people who would never approach a preacher wearing a suit and tie. Some refer to Revelation 19:16 as an example of Jesus possibly having a tattoo on His thigh, “King of kings and Lord of lords.” The question is not necessarily “is getting a tattoo a sin?” The question is more “is getting a tattoo a good and necessary thing to do?” First Corinthians 10:23 declares, “Everything is permissible – but not everything is beneficial. Everything is permissible – but not everything is constructive.”

Christian tattoos may be “permissible,” but are they beneficial and constructive?
In 1 Corinthians 9:22-23, Paul exclaims, “I have become all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save some. I do all this for the sake of the gospel.” Becoming all things to save some is perhaps the only good possible reason for getting a Christian tattoo. If having a tattoo genuinely opens doors for evangelism that would otherwise be closed, getting Christian tattoos would likely “qualify” under Paul’s “becoming all things” qualification. At the same time, it is frankly difficult to envision a scenario in which having a tattoo would enable a greater possibility of evangelism. If a person will not listen to you due to a lack of a tattoo, it is highly unlikely that such a person would genuinely listen due to the presence of a tattoo.

With that said, the biblically based conclusion would seem to be that Christian tattoos are permissible, but it is highly questionable whether they can be considered beneficial and constructive. A Christian considering getting a tattoo should pray for wisdom (James 1:5) and ask the Lord to provide pure motives and discernment.

Judgement House Day 2

42 Salvations last night.

God is working.....
Thank you Jesus for using us to reach others

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Judgement House Day 1

First night of Judgement House tonite at Calvary Baptist Church Rock Hill SC

Listen at this exciting news!!!!!!

47 Professions of Faith, yeah yeah yeah

Thank you Jesus.

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Continue to pray for Michael...

Everyone please continue to pray for Michael.

He still has a long road to recovery in order to be able to come home in the future. Could be 6 months or longer still, just unsure at this time.
His son got to see him this past weekend YAY!

He has lost quite a bit of weight. He has a lot of therapy to try and get his muscles strong again. He still has a lot of healing in the abdomen area.

They say he has a feisty spirit and is ready to come home, so if he keeps that outlook up maybe it will be sooner than 6 months.

Keep those prayers lifted up to Him because we know when God is ready for him to be completely well it could happen in the "twinkling of an eye"

Thanks for your continued prayers for this family....

Monday, October 20, 2008

A Strong Woman...

Listen to this great poem in the Bible Study I'm doing "Behind Those Eyes" by - Lisa Whittle

A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape...
but a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape.

A strong woman isn't afraid of anything...
but a woman of strength shows courage in the midst of her fear.

A strong woman won't let anyone get the best of her...
but a woman of strength gives the best of herself to everyone.

A strong woman makes mistakes and avoids the same in the future...
but a woman of strength realizes life's mistakes can also be God's blessings and capitalizes on them.

A strong woman walks sure-footedly...
but a woman of strength knows God will catch her when she falls.

A strong woman wears the look of confidence on her face...
but a woman of strength wears grace.

A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey...
but a woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong.


**What great words to help us look into ourselves, why not allow these thoughts to soak into your heart and allow God to show you if there are any things you need to change today about yourselves/friendships/relationships.

Love in Him.....
-Beverly

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Ready for a tear jerker.....listen to this...

Was I floored tonite as a Mom! Yes Sir, Yes Mam.

My 17 year old son (18 next month) came in my bedroom tonite and asked me with tears streaming down his face if I would start reading the Bible with him again every day like I did with my kids when they were younger. He said he needed that and he said that he needed me to help him.

I thought I would pass out! Most kids (especially boys) at these ages say they don't need their parents anymore, they live their lives in waiting to move away from home....and my son told me he needed me. I then started crying too and we shared some wonderful hugging time.

Thank you God for showing him and me that we still need each other. God I pray now that you will prepare both of us as we begin again to share devotion time together. Bring us to unity like we haven't had since he began doing devotions on his own. (not consistently but at least he was trying)

God I praise you for giving us what we need when we need it.
You are a mighty God!

I would take these tears tonite over anything else, what a lesson it taught both of us!
Thank you Lord...I love you....

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Do What you Can...

Here is a little poem that was written for the Lend a Hand Society. It serves as a good reminder that each of us can make a difference in our own way.

I am only one.
But still I am one.
I cannot do everything.
But still I can do something.
And because I cannot do everything,
I will not refuse to do the something that
I can do.


--Edward Everett Hale

***Let's think about this great poem....are we doing something? anything? or just gliding through life waiting for tomorrow to arrive.....

--we can share Jesus through our words and actions, let's get busy now---people are out there waiting and needing us to "Do Something"

Let's Go (go and tell)
Let's Do (Do something)
Let's Be (Be a Voice)

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

How often do we complain?

Ever since last Wednesday night at church and hearing Pastor Tony's sermon on complaining this topic has really been on my heart. So I just needed to write about my thoughts about complaining and bring out a few of the ideas he shared with us as well.

I look up tonite in Strong's Concordance how many times the "word" complain or any form of the word is used in the Bible and it shows (18) times. My first thought was what? it has to be more than that. Nope just (18) times is all. OK so that's just how many times this "word" is used in scripture but the number of times complaining was done in the Bible I have no idea. It would have to be in the hundreds and maybe even thousands. People complain about things or other people but they never try to do anything to make it better.

Why do we complain?
Do we have a right to complain?
Did Jesus complain while He was on the cross dying for us? a big fat NO!

If we think about each day we live probably the highest percentage of it is complaining, moaning, groaning. Is that all we have anymore?

What about some JOY! why not let go of complaining and replace it with some joy.
Beth Moore says "Joy keepers are soul winners".

How can we reach souls for Christ if our souls are full of complaining? If we are wanting to grow in the Lord this would be a great place to start for something to throw away (in the garbage) out of our life.

Monday, October 13, 2008

Joy.....

In my Bible Study this week we are studying "joy" (one of the fruits of the Spirit) and in some additional reading and research here is some further information I wanted to share with you.

When we think of joy, we often think of things that are new - a new day, a new baby, a new love, a new beginning, the promise of a new home with God in heaven.

Rejoicing in these things originates with having joy in the God who makes all the things new. Rather than relying on earthly pleasures to provide happiness, the Scriptures command that we rejoice in God and in each new day He brings.

Joy is a celebration of the heart that goes beyond circumstances to the very foundation of joy - the knowledge that we are loved by God.

When we experience true joy, we will naturally express it. As God pours joy into our lives, we can bring it back to Him.

It seems whatever brings us the greatest joy also brings sorrow. Every mother knows that. We would not feel such sorrow if we did not have such great love for our children.

We can maintain our joy when we remember how faithful and unchanging God is. Focusing on Him brings renewed joy.

There is great joy when lost things are found - lost lambs, lost coins, but especially lost people. Sometimes we lose our joy like the older brother in the story of the prodigal son. The good news is that we can turn to God and find it again.

Joy is the inner celebration that nothing on the outside can change the fact that God loves me.

How wonderful that God wants us to go beyond the pursuit of happiness to experience joy. We can be joyful even when we're unhappy.

We all want to be happy, but joy goes much deeper. Joy is not based on circumstances or feelings, which change like the weather. True joy comes from a celebration of the heart over the things that do not change-things that come from the Lord.

We miss so much joy just because we don't open ourselves up to all there is to enjoy. We can choose to embrace all the joy that today has to bring.

Pressures in our lives can crowd out joy. Let's remember to pray and ask God to help us discover renewed joy.

Your joy comes from what you give, now from what you accumulate.

Psalm 16:11 "In Your presence is fullness of joy; At Your right hand are pleasures forevermore."

Update on Michael.....get ready to grab a hanky

Here's a great update from Jim Brown (Michaels' father-in-law)

Becky, Nikki and I all agreed it was time for Wyatt to go see his Daddy. Now that Michael is holding strong in the step down ward of MUSC we are allowed to take Wyatt in to see him.
We all were a bit nervous, because we weren’t sure how Wyatt would react. Obviously Michael looks very different from when Wyatt last saw him 9 weeks ago.
Michael has lost about 80 lbs. he tends to tremble when raising his hands due to extreme weakness. He doesn’t have a lot of facial expressions. Nor does he have the ability to speak out loud yet. We are hoping this week that they will reattach his voice box to the tracheotomy tube.
From what I can see and hear from Michael, he is all there. He whispers to Nikki and she relays what he says to the rest of us. He knows all to well where he is and what is going on. He even has been having nightmares when he sleeps of the accident. He remembers the accident completely.
Due to his nightmares, Nikki and Becky have both assured Michael in speaking with him that the event is all over and that he is ok. To Michael, I am sure this all seems like a blink of an eye and to him it may seem like it was yesterday that an accident happened. For the rest of us, it almost seems like a lifetime.
Nikki has pretty much let him know it is October and he is aware of it now. He even said to Nikki, that he missed his birthday. We all kind of chuckled and told him that yes we had your birthday while you were asleep in the ICU.
Back to Wyatt. As always Wyatt pretty much knows his way around in MUSC. He smiles and waves to everyone. He is always anxious to go play with the toys in the waiting room and ride the elevators. But yesterday was different for him.
We took Wyatt up to the 6th floor and proceeded to Michael’s room. As we entered Michael was awake and looked straight at Wyatt.
Michael’s Grandma, Mother, Sister, Becky, Nikki and I we all in tears, as Michael had tears running down his face as well. We all were telling Wyatt, ‘there’s your Daddy’… Nikki took Wyatt and stepped right up to Michael’s side and Michael raised his hand towards Wyatt. Wyatt gave his Daddy the teddy bear he got for him.
The 3 of them shared a wonderful reunion. Wyatt was a little apprehensive at first but he soon warmed up to Daddy. Becky and I were more than happy to step away from Michael’s room and allow the family to share this wonderful moment. Later on Wyatt went shopping at the gift shop and took his Daddy a balloon that read ‘Get well Dad’.
As Michael drifted off to sleep, Wyatt was his normal self, flirting with the nurses and generally running the hallways. Wyatt seemed more at ease with the second visit back to Daddy’s room and they spent a good amount of time together.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Too much to say....

I've got so much I want to say and share that I don't have time to write about it tonite.

God is moving.....so many topics.....so many thoughts.....so many hurts.....so much joy!
Since I've started this weeks Bible Study on Joy everything I read, everywhere I go(church signs), I've received e-mails about joy....whew! God is really showing me SO much this week.

Tune back in tomorrow sometime and I'll try and have my thoughts posted. He is also wanting me to share about complaining, also about tithing. WOW God is really hitting me with a lot of topics all at the same time. Stay tuned you're in for a lot of posts....

Love ya'll

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Prayer for our Group of Bible Study Ladies.....

Father God,
As our group met tonite for Bible Study, oh the amazing things you showed me personally for my life. You showed me how to deal with some issues I have going on in my life and exactly what I need to do and I want to say Thank you Lord!

God I want to lift up in prayer to you each lady and the requests they made to you tonite for different things that are going on with them personally or in their families. I pray that you will shower each one of them with your answers Lord, show them your power at work God, bring them peace and comfort through each trial or valley they may be facing.

God love on them and continue to bring them closer to you Lord as they seek your face daily during this particular study and their own personal time with you God. I pray that you help them to see when they can carve out time in their day to spend with you Lord.

Fill their needs God, fill their cups overflowing with renewed joy this week and help us to understand how we should NEVER cease to rejoice!

In your name I give these requests,
Your daughther,
Beverly

Monday, October 6, 2008

How much Faith do you have?



This picture is actually bigger than most mustard seeds I've seen.

So think about it, do you have even this much faith?

God tells us in His word Matt. 17:20 that if we have faith the size of a mustard seed we can move a mountain.

So do we? Why don't we take everything to God. He wants to hear all our problems from the biggest to the smallest. He already knows them all, but He wants us to tell Him about them.

Do we not believe He can help us through them? I'm going through one of those times in my life right now. Satan is on the attack trying to attack my small mustard seed, but he is not going to win. I'm showing God that I have the faith to know He will bring me through my difficult times and I will give Him the glory and honor through it all. I'm not giving in, instead I'm giving it all up to Him in prayer....

What about you? what is the size of your faith?

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Last night of my R and R.....

OK my last day of R and R was great. I'm not ready to go home.

Today we:
-went shopping at many places
-had dinner at Bull Fish Grille (this is an AWESOME restaurant)
-went to the Comedy Barn show
-came back to the hotel for a bit
-went to the Tennessee Shindig Show
-got back to the hotel around 10:30
-packed a little

Not ready to go back to reality just yet. I could still use some more time away.
I have many decisions to make when I return home so please be in prayer for me.

I love ya'll

I'm Just sayin'.....

OK people I have a question for you:

Why do people say "I'm just sayin'. If you've already said what you had to say, then why do you then have to end your conversation with "I'm just sayin'?

Friday, October 3, 2008

My 4-day vacation so far.....

Ok so here is a list of what we've done so far:

(Thursday)
- Went to the Christmas Village shopping
- Went to the As Seen on TV Store
- Ate lunch at Red Lobster
- Went to the Elvis Museum
- Drove to Gatlinburg and shopped
- I tried out the Jiggling George
- Ate dinner at Bennetts BBQ
- Drove back to Pigeon Forge to hotel

(Friday)
-Went to the Outlet Mall shopping (got some great deals)
-Went to Belks
-Lunch at Chick Filet
-Went to Wonder Works (had a blast)
-Drove to Knoxville
-Dinner at the Apple Barn
-Went to pick up our show tickets for tomorow nights "Comedy Barn"
-Went through a Mirror Maze (we got through in 7 minutes) they said most people take about 20 minutes
-Back to the Christmas Village to pick up a few items
-Back to the hotel for some chillaxin'

We are having a lot of fun......I needed this R and R very much.

Please pray for me while I'm here though even through all the fun there is something that has happened that is truly weighing on my heart. Pray that God will help me make the right decisions for when I return home.

One day and a half left and I intend on making the most of all God has for me here.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Having Christmas early.....

OK here's a cool question for ya'll out there who read my blog.

How soon have you ever celebrated Christmas?

Well guess what I'm celebrating right now. We are in Gatlinburg TN and staying at
"The Inn at Christmas Place". This entire hotel is decorated with Christmas decorations in the lobby, in the garden, at the pool, each room. It is just beautiful. I wish I had my camera cord so I could down load some pictures for you to see. We are having a blast. My mom and sister told me I was not going to be blogging all weekend long but I told them hold up now that I have to let everyone know what's happening.

I will continue to keep you updated with my trip and the things the Lord lays on my heart while I'm up here in the beautiful mountains. Love ya'll and talk to you tomorrow sometime.